Asheville Citizen-Times from Asheville, North Carolina • Page 8

Dear Abby: Wedding Bells Won't Ring DEAR ABBY: I have been dating an attractive widower for a year. He is in his early sixties. He takes me to nice places and is most considerate of me, but on the very first date he told me not to get serious with him. He wants to date me steady, but he doesn't want any "involvements." He wants to play house with me but tells me that marriage is not i in his plans. He even tells me that he is in love with me, but he isn't husband material.

What does all this mean? Should I give him up or just be satisfied to date him and hope he will change his mind? NOT SO GAY DIVORCEE DEAR NOT: He is trying to tell you that he doesn't want to marry you, bat if you waste your time "hoping," you can't say he didn't warn you. DEAR ABBY: One of my husband's business acquaintances has made it 'a Annie Clark Is Feted At Party Newport News. College. JOHN CARROIL One of America's Most Elegant Fashion Stores BODY TREATMENT ALLEVIA Bedra de ALLEVIA TRAVEL STICK ca de harked de frankitk introduces THE GREAT ALLEVIA OVER-ALL BEAUTY DIET Price January Only Now the beautiful experience of totality with Allevia. For you who know and cherish the original Allevia.

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Chandelier Court Main Floor Battery Park Page Ave. Asheville Miss Garrison, Mr. Dix Exchange Marriage Vows HAYESVILLE Miss seed pearls. Mary Elizabeth Garrison, Mrs. Lynn P.

Brockwell of daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Newport of News, honor was matron and Mrs. Horace D. Garrison, became John Gregory of Charlotte the bride of Gordon Wonnell was a bridesmaid.

They wore Dix, son of Mr. and Mrs. dark green velveteen Empire Gordon W. Dix, Sr. of Ex- dresses trimmed in off-white Va.

on Sunday. and carried clusters of lace more, white carnations mixed with The Rev. John Burton con- northern holly greenery. ducted the ceremony in the Lynn P. Brockwell of Hayesville First United Newport News, was best Methodist Church.

man. Dr. Edwin Bud GarThe bride was given in mar- rison, brother of the bride, riage by her father. She wore was usher. an Empire shpper satin gown The bride graduated from with detachable train, which she designed and made.

Her Western Carolina University and is employed by the veil of silk illusion trimmed in Venetian lace attached Hampton City School System. was The groom, a graduate of to cluster of flower petals and Virginia Polytechnical Town Institute, is employed as a Country's OLD FASHIONED buyer in the Purchasing BUTCHER SHOP Department of Newport News oz. Hamburger Patties Shipbuilding and Dry Dock 65c lb. (Discount to Restaurants) 280 New Leicester Hiway Company. 254-3309 The couple will live in Newport News.

love letting him trim your bangs. Copyright 1970 LOS ANGELES TIMES Martha Lyday Is Engaged To Mr. Dobbins BREVARD Mr. and Mrs. Randal Johnson announce the engagement of their daughter, Miss Martha Elizabeth Lyday, to Grover Cleatus Dobbins son of Mr.

and Mrs. Grover C. Dobbins of Raleigh. The bride-elect is a senior at Meredith College in Raleigh majoring in history and elementary education. She is a member of Astrotekton society and business manager of the Meredith annual.

The prospective bridegroom is a senior civil engineering student at North Carolina State University. He is a member of Phi Eta Sigma honorary fraternity and Sigma Pi social fraternity. The wedding is planned for May 22, 1971. Goren On Bridge Women Fashions Food Society THE ASHEVILLE CITIZEN, Dec. 31, 1970 Mrs.

Rosenstock Is Wed To Dr. Albert Kodack of Lakeshore Garden Apartments and Dr. Albert Kodack of 9 North Kensington Road were married Dec. 24. Rabbi Stanley Funston conducted the ceremony in the members of the families attending.

Following the ceremony a dinner was held. The couple will reside in Lakeshore Garden Apartments. Mrs. Theodora Rosenstock home of the bride, with only mitted my mother to a lunatic asylum or "put her away" like a crimianl. Abby, the sanatorium is one of the best and one of the most expensive -which puts a strain on me financially, but if I had to scrub floors to provide my mother with the best of care.

I would do it. Please print this. So many are quick to. criticize when they don't know the facts. ABIGAIL VAN BUREN habit to come here once a week for drinks and a nice thick steak dinner.

He is middle-aged, divorced, and a kind of happy-go-lucky fellow. After dinner he and my husband play pool in our rec room. I don't want to be bothered with the man every week. My husband is the kind who can't say "no" to anyone, and I am sick of this man imposing on us. How can I get rid of him without making my husband angry at me? NAME, PLEASE DEAR NO NAME: your husband would be "angry at you" if you got rid of this man, then it's obvious that your husband wants him.

It's his house, too, so I advise you to start being a more gracious hostess, or your displeasure will show and your husband will be "angry" at you anyway. DEAR ABBY: My elderly mother, whom I love dearly, made her home with me for many years. Caring for her this past year has been a 24-hour-a-day job. She became senile and sick, lost control of all of her bodily functions, had to be fed and dressed and watched constantly. I am not complaining.

She is my mother and I know she would have done the same for me and gladly. Two months ago, her doctor insisted that she be moved to a sanatorium because the equipment essential for treatment was there, plus other factors which made keeping her at home impossible. Remarks have come back to me that have hurt me deeply. You would think I com- "HURT" DAUGHTER CONFIDENTIAL TO MANNY: You are lucky it was only a fur coat. Next time it may be your hide." CONFIDENTIAL TO "WORRIED" IN BRISTOL, No one can "build up" an immunity to venereal disease.

After treatment he be reinfected again and again and again! I urge you to see physician or your public health department. You will not be lectured. In your state, a doctor is authorized by law to test and treat minors without the consent of parents. Venereal disease is now the second most common communicable infection in the United States. (The common cold is first!) I urge you to see a physician at once.

What's your problem? You'll feel better if you get it off your chest. Write to ABBY, Box 69700, Los Angeles, Cal. 90069. For a personal reply enclose stamped, addressed envelope. Social Calendar THURSDAY 12:30 p.m.

Alpha Duplicate Bridge Club, ACBL, 233 Liberty St. Singing Scheduled ROSMAN The regular monthly singing will be held Sunday at Zion Baptist Church at 7 p. m. Special groups expected include the Southerners of Travelers Rest, S. the Justice Sisters of Canton, and the Roy Shelton Family of Brevard.

Cookin's Fun By CECILY BROWNSTONE SUNDAY BUFFET No need to knead this yeast bread! Chicken Salad with Crisp Greens Sliced Tomatoes Deviled Eggs Cheese Snack Bread Olives Fruit Compote Beverage CHEESE SNACK BREAD cups unsifted flour, 2 tablespoons sugar, teaspoon salt, 1 tablespoon instant minced onion, 1 teaspoon dill seed, 2 tablespoons butter, 1 cup (4 ounces), shredded Provolone cheese, 1 cup warm water (110 to 115 degrees), 1 package instant blend dry yeast, 1 egg, room temperature. Topping: soft butter, Romano cheese, coarse salt. Measure the first 7 ingredients into a bowl; blend with fork or pastry blender; set aside. In a small bowl dissolve the yeast in the warm water; add the egg; pour into flour mixture. Beat until thoroughly blended.

Cover and let rise in warm draftfree place until doubled about 45 minutes. Beat down raised batter in about 25 strokes; will be thick and somewhat sticky. Spread batter in greased jelly roll pan (15 by 10 by 1 inch). Tap pan on table to settle batter. Let rise until doubled about 20 minutes.

Brush top of batter with soft butter; sprinkle with Romano cheese and coarse salt. Bake in a. preheated 425- degree oven 1 15 to 25 minutes. Remove from pan to rack. JOHN CARROLL Hints From Heloise: Bright Cards Bring Joy By CHARLES H.

GOREN North South vulnerable. West deals. NORTH 4 Q1054 9 A 10 0 062 WEST EAST 4 K763 07643 9K53 0 Q1085 0K943 10942 83. SOUTH A AJ98 9 QJ98 The bidding: West North East South Pass Pass Pass Pass Pass Pass Pass Opening lead: Five of 0 Sometimes declarer must duck the opening lead for the purpose of establishing ready communications between his two hands. A somewhat unusual case is presented today.

I favor the direct manner in which North and South arrived at a slam contract in spades. When North opened the bidding and subsequently raised South's takeout of one spade to two, South reached the conclusion that the partnership had assets equivalent to 33 points. The South hand is valued at 19 points and the opening bidder may be counted on for 14 in support. There is the further consideration that South's king and queen of clubs are much more impressive by reason of North's opening bid in that suit. South's directness of approach has the merit of concealing from the adversaries any information which might prove helpful to the defense.

West opened the five of diamonds and East put up the king. Declarer won the trick with his ace, a move which he. was presently to regret. South led a diamond at trick two and West put up the ten to hold the trick. The shift was to a heart and the ace was played from dummy.

The queen of spades was put through for a trump finesse. All hands ducked, and a small spade was led next to declarer's nine. This too held, as West showed out and now the jack of diamonds was ruffed with North's ten of spades. The remaining trump was led from dummy to repeat the finesse. South won the trick with the jack and then cashed the ace to pick up East's king.

South now played the king and queen of clubs. He was obliged to overtake the queen with the ace since North had to side entries left. The jack of clubs was cashed but, when the suit failed to break, declarer could win no more and the outcome was a two-trick set. Had South permitted East to hold the first trick with the king of diamonds, the defense would have been rendered helpless for with East on lead there is no profitable way to attack North's ace of hearts. Declarer merely wins the return with the ace of diamonds, ruffs out his jack next, and draws trumps by repeated finesses against the king of spades.

He then cashes the king and queen of clubs and enters dummy with the ace of hearts to run the clubs for the balance of the tricks. Miss Annie McClure Clark, bride-elect of John C. Ager Jr. of Atlanta, was honored with a miscellaneous shower Tuesday at the Country Club of Asheville. Hostesses were Mrs.

Robert G. Beard and Mrs. Charles W. Phillips. Miss Clark is the daughter of Mr.

and Mrs. James McClure Clark of Hickory Nut Gap Farm in Fairview and Mr. Ager is the son of Mr. and Mrs. John Curtis Ager of Atlanta.

They will be married at 3:30 p.m. Sunday in the chapel at Warren Wilson BY HELOISE CRUSE worthwhile treasures, but Dear Heloise: most were quite humorous Children in hospitals have and true. very little to keep them busy. So right after Christmas I collected all the used Christmas cards that friends were throwing away, bought a few scrapbooks, and took them all to the hospital. I was so pleased to see how much the children enjoyed cutting the pictures from the cards and pasting them in the books.

The cost isn't much, the cards are put to good use, and the enjoyment the children get is well worth it. You could go a step further and take or send the children's finished books to the nearest mental hospital, for the patients will spend hours looking at the prettv pictures. Don't stop with Christmas cards, either, for birthday, Valentine and other cards can bring happiness too! Mrs. T. Montanio Dear Heloise: We're all flying flags high these days, so if you can't use a flag pole and want to hang your flag out flat from your window, try using One of America's Most Elegant Fashion Stores Continuing our After Christmas Sale Clearance Exceptional Savings on Fashion Merchandise from our Regular Stocks of Name Brands.

Coats Suits Dresses Sportswear Millinery Lingerie Handbags Jewelry Shoes Reductions Up To And More Battery Park Page Ave. Asheville ADVERTISEMENT Sewage Lift Station Mountain View Limestone Township garters from a discarded girdle. They are perfect and there are no holes from pins! Mrs. Drowne I think this rates a "snappy" salute, don't you? Heloise Dear Heloise: HELOISE CRUSE Here is a cute hint that we use in my dorm at school. We girls are always trying to find ways to make our rooms look brighter and we stumbled across this: We took about twenty paper flowers, bent the stems to form a hook and hung them upside down over our curtain rods.

Easy to do and really adds a feminine gay touch to an ordinary and plain room. Rosa G. Dear Heloise: Here is an idea that we came up with when giving a friend a bridal shower. Pass around an autograph book and have each guest sign her name, and add her hint to the new bride-to-be as to how to have a happy and successful marriage. We did this, and, needless to say, some hints were Sealed proposals will be received by the Buncombe County Board of Com.

missioners, Buncombe County, North Carolina, for the remodeling and struction of sewage lift station at Mountain View, Limestone Bun. combe County, North Carolina. The posals will be received at the sioners' office, Buncombe County Court House, Asheville, N. C. until 2:00 o'clock p.m ananda 1971, and will be publicly opened read immediately thereafter.

The work will consist of constructing a duplex sewage lift station, replacing an existing facility. Proposals must be marked "Proposal for Sewage Lift Station" and must be upon the forms provided within the Contract Documents. General Contractors are notified that Chapter 87, Article 1, General Statutes of North Carolina, will be observed in receiving awarding general tracts. Each proposal shall be accompanied by a cash aeposit or a certified check drawn on some bank or trust company insured by the Federal Deposit Insurance Corporation, of an amount equal 10 not less than 5 per cent of the amount of the bid; or in lieu thereof a bidder may offer a bid bond of 5 per cent of the bid, said deposit to be retained by the Board ct County Commissioners of Buncombe County, North Carolina, as liquidated damages in the event of failure of the successful bidder to execute the Contract within ten (10) days after the award or to give satisfactory surety as required by law. (Public Laws 1933, C.

143, Art. 129, as amended by the Public Laws of 1949 and Public Laws of 1951.) A performance-payment bond will be required in an amount equal to of the contract price conditioned upon the faithful performance of the contract and upon the payment of all persons supplying labor and furnishing materials for the construction of the proiect. Plans, specifications and contract documents may be examined at the office of the Superintendent, Sanitary Department, Buncombe County Court House, Asheville, North Carolina and at the office of Matheson, Hintz and Associates, Asheville Airport Road, Fletcher, North Carolina. Copies of the plans and specifications and forms cf proposal will be mailed upon application to the Engineer. The award of the contract shall be conditioned upon funds being made available for such construction ad upon the applicant having a right to hold the bids for a period of thirty (30) days from the date of opening bids, unless otherwise required by law.

No bid may be withdrawn after the scheduled closing time for the receipt of bids for a period of thirty (30) days. The right is reserved to relect any all bids, or to accept the bid most favor. able to the Buncombe County Board of Commissioners, in the discretion of the Chairman of the Board Gordon Greenwood, Chairman Buncombe County Board of Commissioners Buncombe County, North Carolina Matheson, Hintz and Associates, Inc. Consulting Engineers Route 2, Box 286 Fletcher, North Carolina 28732 (7465) Dec. 31, 1970.

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